Neil Andrew Farkas Slams Girlfriend’s Toddler Into a Wall
Neil Andrew Farkas, 45, has been charged with inflicting an injury on a child, endangering a child or allowing a child to suffer, and commission of a felony resulting in great bodily injury for picking up his girlfriend’s 19-month-old son, skaking then slamming his head into the wall.
The toddler is in critical condition and has undergone surgery at UC Davis Medical Center.
Farkas told the police that he was watching the child while his mom was at work. The boy wouldn’t stop banging a cup against the wall and screaming, so he lost it and threw the kid against the wall. Nice.
About eight hours later, Farkas noticed that the boy was not breathing. He called the boy’s mother at work and told her the he had fallen out of bed.
Just looking at this guy, would you trust him to babysit your toddler?
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56 opinions for Neil Andrew Farkas Slams Girlfriend’s Toddler Into a Wall
Ihavekidstoo
May 20, 2007 at 5:55 pm
I literally felt sick to my stomach reading this. I know being a single mother is tough, but what the hell are these women thinking when they leave their child in the care of just anyone? What breaks my heart is the fear and pain this baby must have felt going through this. I pray he can make a full recovery. And that his abuser gets his just desserts in prison.
shauna olsen
May 20, 2007 at 8:24 pm
I feel bad for the mother right about now. You know that she is mentally kicking herself for making the wrong choice on boyfriends, and not realizing that she just may lose her child if he dies, or if he makes it the poor kid will have lots of physical and mental problems for the rest of his life. It is hard to be single mom and want a relationship yet not knowing if you are doing more damage than good when you chose unwisely in a man. I hope she prays to God that her son survives, and maybe learn a lesson that relationships can wait especially since now and days it spells out a death sentence for the kids involved if the wrong choice is made. The bastard deserves to have his head smashed into a wall and left to suffer!!!!
Lauren
May 21, 2007 at 4:49 am
the only person i feel sorry for is the kid. i might feel bad if the mom got her head slammed against the wall herself. im sorry even if this happened to me, people have to be careful anymore and if someone hurt my kid, yeah i guess you could feel sorry for me to because i wouldnt be around to see if my son is ok, i would be in prison for MURDER, fuck if i would let someone even jerk my kid up and get away with it
Katie
May 21, 2007 at 7:54 am
Yeah, HELLO! What frame of mind do you have to be in to leave your child with “some guy?” Let me guess, she’d known him for like, what, three months and was desperate to find a father for her baby, blah, blah, blah. WAKE UP. You have to research now. There are crazy and insane people with anger management issues crawling all over the face of the world, every day, and YES, they live and work where you do. I AM SORRY! But I just can’t stand these kind of stories anymore. Not when it could’ve been avoided in an obvious way. I am sure there are actual babysitting services for single moms that she could’ve checked out. Now that I’ve vented my anger, I say yes, I feel horrible for the baby. And after the mother goes through realizing the gravity of the situation (which I’m sure she already does) I feel sorry for her, too.
anonymous
May 21, 2007 at 8:43 am
you all that have left comments here, have absolutely NO RIGHT to pass judgement the mother. she is my sister and there was no way in hell she had any reason at the time to not trust him with her child. none of you know the situation or the back story, and the only one to blame here is neil…so fuck you if you blame my sister. she is the most wonderful mother her son could ask for, and what right do you have saying relationships can wait….everyone deserves to be happy and have a partner in life…yes, hind sight is 20/20…and if she even had an inkling of what this guy was really like, there is no way in hell that she would have even been near him, or had her son with him…what is needed right now are prayers for my sister and my nephew to both pull through this
NIKKI
May 21, 2007 at 9:04 am
I was thinking somewhat the same thing before I read the aunt’s comment. I think (from what we know) my was a responsible person. She was at work and just doing the best she could. Had she had any feeling that he would hurt her baby she would have made another choice. When she got the call she went to the hospital. A friend of mine is a single mom and she just lost her subsidised child care. Reason: she didnt work enough hours because she was out for 2 months after having a stroke 2 days before Christmas! It sucks! Reallysucks. Now he is stuck with no care and the summer is coming. Yes she will appeal the decision but will they re-instate her services? Who knows.We must be careful in what we say about others. Could we really walk a mile in their shoes?
Bob
May 21, 2007 at 5:24 pm
This guy looks like a child molester. there is no way I would leave my kid with him
Bob
May 21, 2007 at 5:27 pm
To the aunt, I just want to ask where were you to help your sister out?
why did she have to depend on a man that I am sure she just ment as the other poster said.??
As I said before I for one would NEVER leave my child with a guy that looks like that.
He is creepy looking and doesn’t even look like a nice guy.
Meg
May 21, 2007 at 7:16 pm
Yet again, I do believe that one of the biggest threats to a child is the mothers boyfriend…and the stupid mothers for leaving their babies with a guy who looks like a case study for pedophilia…and to the Aunt, my prayers will go for that poor child…as for your sister, I hope she has her happiness now…hindsight is 20/20…give me a break…I was a single mother for 11 years…I also didnt have the luxury of having subsidized child care…not once did I ever leave my child with some wackadoo…that guy is sure enough crazy looking….
Michael
May 21, 2007 at 9:57 pm
I’m not defending the guy but seriously, what does a child molester look like? They could look like anyone and he wasn’t even accused of molestation.
In reality child molesters look like youth pastors, priets, scout leaders, teachers, coaches, etc.
You can’t go around judging people because their photo looks crazy. The mugs shots here come in all varieties.
sharon
May 21, 2007 at 11:53 pm
I think that people blaming the mother are stupid you don’t know her. I don’t know her but as a mother I would like to belive she had no idea that this man could do this. So why not just pray for her and her son and stop passing judgement on someone you don’t know. To the Aunt your sister is lucky to have you sticking up for her. My prayers are with your family.
alalee
May 22, 2007 at 12:57 am
Molesters, beaters, and murderers come in all shapes and sizes. I agree, you can’t pass judgment based on looks. Yeah, he looks creepy but that doesn’t always mean anything: Look at the case of Ronald Holcomb.
I also agree that you can’t pass judgment on mother yet since we don’t know the whole story. Far too often it happens that single mothers shack up with the first penis….ooops….man they meet and try to install them as “daddy” in the situation (I’ve seen this firsthand) because they are too worried about taking care of their own needs instead of their children’s, but many of them seem to be welfare-dependent instead of a mother who was actually out working to support herself and her child.
It’s just sad.
NIKKI
May 22, 2007 at 7:43 am
yeah guys, we cant blame mom or the aunt. I can’t allways help my sister babysit her kids. That does not make me a bad person. This guy is the blame! Not the baby’s mom. Has anyone here ever made a bad judgement call? I think we have! We have just been lucky/blessed/fortunate enough that it hasnt harmed/involved our kids! Be Easy people! Gosh. We can’t sit up on a high horse and pass judgement.
NIKKI
May 22, 2007 at 8:33 am
I have to stay off this site for a while. I get kinda drained. Kids being hurt, people passing judgement. Guys be good to one another! Peace, atleast for a while!
Toni
May 22, 2007 at 3:42 pm
Wow, there is a lot of judgement going on here. The only thing any of us know for sure is that Neil Farkas, 45 year old “man” picked a 19 month old BABY up and shook him and then slammed his head into a wall. Why? Because the baby was slamming his sippy cup aginst the wall. Why not take the sippy cup away? Why not call the mother or the family to pick the child up because he just couldn’t handle it? Why at 45 get himself involved with a much younger woman that had a baby?
People….there are a lot of why’s here…..but lets really blame the one person that had the ultimate control over the situation, Neil Farkas.
For the rest of you that have had the baby and my cousin the mother in their prayers; thank you…..for the others, think before you judge. My cousin is a good Mother just trying to do the best she can in an impossible situation. Until you’ve walked in her shoes and have been manipulated by a person like Neil (who by the way is an obvious psychopath) you don’t know what you would do or who you would or would not trust.
Meg
May 22, 2007 at 7:45 pm
OK…this is true…molesters and abusers come in all shapes and sizes…that said—
I find it hard to believe that a mother would have no idea that this guy was a loose screw…there are signs that someone has a short fuse..unless she didn’t know him that well and that alone is a stupid move on her part to leave a child with someone she doesnt know…there can be no excuses here…I am so tired of mothers being defended…it’s so socially wrong to blame a mother…just because a person can get pregnant does not make them a mother….that is my opinion and I am sticking to it…buh bye
brokenhearted
May 22, 2007 at 8:16 pm
This little boy is the same age as my son and he shared the same daycare with my son. He was a sweet, innocent and a happy little boy, like my son. He was just learning to talk and just so cute and loving. I cannot even fathom why someone would inflict such horrible trauma and terror opon an innocent child. Those of us who cannot think like a deviant cannot even imagine that someone could be capable of such horrible behavior. My heart is broken that this has happened to this sweet little boy. My heart goes out to this struggling single mom who probably thought how nice it would be for her son to come home after a long day in daycare and be able to sleep in his own bed and how hard could it be to just put him to bed and do nothing while he sleeps never ever imagining that he would be tortured. Not everyone has had bad experiences that would make them distrustful, not all of us have our raidar perfectly honed at all times to ward off all potential danger for our children. I pray that Neil will get his divine justice sooner rather than later, I pray that this little boy be healed to turn into a strong, healthy man who brings joy to others, I pray that his mother allow God’s forgiveness upon her so that she can help her son heal and grow up to be a fine man, I pray that I and all of us who are able would be given the opportunity,wisdom and ability to reach out to these mothers or fathers who are struggling to provide help, support and nuturing.
Mom of four, so far...
May 23, 2007 at 1:05 am
I agree. I know that there are single mothers out there who could care less about their kids and will shack up with the first guy who pays attention to them, but not every single mother is like that. Maybe she really DIDN’T know that the guy was like that with children.
And yes, child molesters come in all shapes and sizes. Just watch the news, like a pp said, more often child molesters appear in the form of teachers, clergy, coaches, etc. A lot of their pictures look like what you would characterize as a “nice guy”. Not every child molester has a creepy appearance (and not everyone who has a creepy appearance is a child molester).
Jim
May 23, 2007 at 8:30 am
Okay, brief and to the point. The woman should have shown better judgement, come on, stop using the single mother alibi!!! As far as this piece of trash, well, he needs to be locked up with someone on death row and be tortured!! People like him are not worth the tax payers dollars to have a place to eat, they make me sick!!! Anyway, until our passive society starts being aggressive with this type of crap, it is going to continue!!!!
Toni
May 23, 2007 at 9:03 am
Thank you Brokenhearted and Mom of 4 so far.
Meg and the rest: really try and understand that there are others that don’t live in the perfect world, with the perfect judgment that you have created for yourselves. That some people wake up one day and find themselves in a world that is lonely, terrifying and completely changed from the one they knew the night before. When that kind of earth shattering loss happens; your “judgment” (that clearly you all have so much faith in), can fail you.
You know there is this that I think pretty much sums it up…”Judgment is mine says the Lord.” We have rules as a society that must be kept, and in order to do that we accept the judicial judgment of those that are trained in these guide lines. But in this case; none of us are perfect; none of us are God like. And in that, please save your judgments for yourselves.
My family, my cousin, my Grandparents have been through enough pain with out complete strangers that know NOTHING of the back ground to this story, passing irrelevant judgment on this child’s mother.
Please, we all can see that this was a tragedy that did not have to happen, but lets keep the negativity directed to the person that deserves it; Neil A. Farkas…..not my cousin.
Thank you.
NIKKI
May 23, 2007 at 9:18 am
brokenhearted, I said I wasn’t going post for a while. But what u said was BEAUTIFUL! thanks
sactown
May 23, 2007 at 12:15 pm
I knew this guy and I would’ve never thought that he was capable of doing something like this. He himself has a young son. This is truly a tradegy how he ruined so many lives, including his own. My prayers go out to the family involved.
Meg
May 23, 2007 at 3:20 pm
I’m glad to know that I can neglect my son’s safety and still be a good mom just by playing the right card…This site is to place opinions and I am voicing mine…I work with kids in foster care…I see daily the effects of abuse on kids….every single day of my life….there are no excuses—ever
NIKKI
May 24, 2007 at 5:15 am
YOU PEOPLE KILL ME!! SITTING ON YOUR HIGH HORSES! WHAT DID THE MOTHER DO? SHE MADE A BAD JUDGEMENT CALL AND THAT ERASES EVERYTHING SHE HAS DONE FOR HER CHILD! I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU ALL ARE SO PERFECT THAT YOU HAVE NEVER MADE A PARENTING MISTAKE! KUDOS! HATS OFF! CONGRATS! I JUST HOPE THE CRAP NEVER HITS THE FAN IN ANY OF YOUR LIVES! OR YOUR SUPERIOR ATTITUDE DOESNT COME BACK TO BITE YA!
NIKKI
May 24, 2007 at 5:16 am
AND THAT’S MY OPINION!
Tamera
May 24, 2007 at 5:56 am
I feel for the mother, I really do. As a working mother of a toddler (I am married but my husband travels so I often feel like a single mom!) I understand that sometimes there are difficult choices to be made. HOWEVER, having said that, I also must say that my child’s safety and happiness is absolutely my number one priority and I don’t mind letting a healthy dose of paranoia guide my decisions with respect to my daughter. I don’t think you can be too careful with the safety of children, especially at this age, and I really wish that better choices had been made. I’m sure the guilt and pain will follow this poor woman for the rest of her life. My prayers are with the little one.
Kathy
May 25, 2007 at 12:35 pm
I have another question. Where was this child’s FATHER? We are so quick to put the blame on single mothers when this stuff happens. I imagine alot of it is deserved, but why doesn’t anyone blame the father? Where is he? Why wasn’t he watching the baby while mom worked instead of this man? Why didn’t he notice that this person was a psychopath? Unless this baby’s father is DEAD, he should carry just as much blame as the mother.
Sure, careless lonely single mothers looking for companionship but their children in harms way, but so do ABSENT fathers. People come on. It takes two people to concieve a child. Two people should share the responsibility of raising them and ensuring their safety.
alalee
May 25, 2007 at 1:29 pm
Sometimes fathers aren’t given a chance to know: Go read the story about Chandler and you will see paternity was never established since the mother had a revolving door on her bedroom.
Michael
May 25, 2007 at 4:30 pm
The baby’s father is dead. Died in January. I knew Neil and his family for 8 years. Even I didn’t know he was capable of this.
Toni
May 26, 2007 at 12:11 pm
Again I challange any of you, who are quick to judge, to walk a mile in this mother’s shoes and see what your perfect judgement would get you.
Let’s talk about why people snap, or why Neil snapped, ….but enough of the Mother bashing here.
Kathy
May 26, 2007 at 1:10 pm
Thanks for clearing that up Michael. I hate that the baby’s father died, but its nice to know that there isn’t some sperm donor out there just sitting back and letting the mom take all the heat.
Lauren
Jun 4, 2007 at 11:34 am
has there been any updates yet on the baby? i hope he is doing well and nothing that will have long term damage has affected him
jackson
Jun 25, 2007 at 3:41 pm
I think all you people should find out the facts first. I think if your going to make any fucking comments you should no the people you are talking about and stop blaming the mother. It shows you what dumb fucking bastards we have in the world. . Just read these stupid comments. Just pass jugdement on people you don’t know good job!!! you fucking losers.
jackson
Jun 25, 2007 at 3:45 pm
Neil I hope you get your whats coming to you. It’s getting fucked in prison and treated like a bitch. Make sure you are wearing lip stick so you look pretty when you get fucked…..
lincoln
Jun 28, 2007 at 3:14 pm
You go jackson an toni !!!!! ……………………………………….Its for sure that the little guy an his mom are the most important in this issue ….. an i do know more then I every wanted to know of this un-called act of abuse an its very close to my heart?! …………An not everyone is lucky to have a sitter on hand ,family member,freind on demand an even thoes helpers if avalible have been known to…… not be a safe house? ………. I Think PARENTS BEHAVING BADLEY….. PLUS ECT>>>>>> Proves that!!! we here everyevery day on news someone abusing ……..or ONES killing …….ect.))))))))))))) BUT THIS website SAYS THERES MORE THEN WE ALL KNOW ABOUT ……COULD EVEN BE TOLD OUT ON NEWS EVERYDAY MIN> SEC> ECT>>>>>>But its for sure mug shots are the worst(not to up hold this one)its called “Do not judge a book by its cover”! ………cause some times the cover is transparent to the eyes an as they say “Shit happens “”…..that we don’t, sence in all of our lives ….. thats part of learning….. an we know we all make mistakes , wrong turns, an bad ……judgments (its for sure i have at times) an we don’t know what ,when, where, the road in are lifes lead……. IT’S OUR LIFE WE MAKE OF IT AN WE CAN KNOW WHEN ITS GOING TO HIT US IN THE -A _ _ ….. But it dont come in a book of directions we go with the flow of the world an hope we make a right turn if not we try an pick up an move on !!……….. SO lets dont judge the mother an yes Neal is sicko…… but we pay for things in life ….his(neals) ……. day will come its already started……… !? YES neal has runied alot of lives ?????…An some things not fair to others we only say why? an hope the answers follow an in time it will all come out! AND I DO HOPE ITS GOING TO BE SOON AN JUSTICE FOR ALL INVOLVED!!!! That I pray:) PS an Iam sure baby ks Daddy Is with him in spirt 0:) more to come…………………
Anonymous
Jul 9, 2007 at 2:21 pm
I knew Neil Farkas years ago, and am aghast at what he’s done. I could speculate about the trajectory his life took to get him to where he is today, but am less interested in him and the justice he will no doubt face than I am in the little boy and his family. Does anybody know what his condition is? Is there a fund for his rehabilitation? I am heartsick about this and would like to help however I can. In the meantime, I’ll be praying for his healing, and for his family.
kate
Jul 10, 2007 at 4:10 pm
thank you for all of you who have put supporting thoughts on this page…for updates on my nephew and journal entries from my sister and the info for any donations towards his recovery, please visit http://www.babykai.com guest password is kai.
we ask that only positive thoughts and prayers be said on the site and we appreciate any that come through. thank you.
lincoln
Jul 10, 2007 at 4:45 pm
THANK YOU ANONYMOUS ……… for being interested in knowing about the little boy “KAI” ….he has his own site just go to (babykai )..an you can see an here all about his recovery …..! With all the prayers …. he is coming along :) an his mother is so amazing too!….there you can find out any & all information on his progress from beging…. an any help for this little guy is very well appreciated an needed for his recovery of healing ….. THANK YOU AGAIN !! AN GOD BLESS YOU …. and also ALL THE PRAYERS THIS COULD HAVE BEEN ANYONES CHILD !! :( AND TO……… LAUREN……….. AN your concern its for sure everyone is looking for no lasting affect for this child but know one can ever know what afect will be with this little guy in his future !!! and its for sure we all want to move on but the ones directly in the path will never forget!!!
ME
Jul 16, 2007 at 9:29 am
Guys—why are you trashing the mother? From what I saw, the mother was doing the best she could for her son. She was raising him on her own and going to work every day. Childcare for a small child is not cheap–it can cost up to $200 a week. Let;s not forget the other bills she had to endure on her own, like rent, clothing and food.
I see a lot of people praising the foster care industry–I wrote an entire novel on that (should be out by this time next year) so I will stay off that soap box—FOR NOW. Here’s what I will say though–if the states would provide money so people could pay for quaility child care while going to work or school instead of sitting back and waiting for the parents to be forced to make mistakes like leaving kids with bad babysitters or home alone so they can provide so the state can remove the kids and pay the “fosters” to provide what the parents would have provided if the state really gave a damn—you wouldn’t see as many of these stories on here.
I guarantee if the mother could have afforded decent child care, her child would not have been left with her boyfriend. It’s just hard to do it all alone (and child support is a joke—there is nothing out there that will make an absent parent pay it….the most they can do is garnish wages and many father’s will bounce between jobs to avoid that)
JMHO
day care provider
Jul 28, 2007 at 10:43 pm
I am so shocked by some of the comments on this web. I was actually searching the web to see if they had posted anything on Neil as far as news of when and if he’d been sentenced and ran into this web. I watched this child for this mother since Jan and the tradegedy of the loss of the father. I am also so shocked, how some of you blame the mother by Neil’s looks. In defense of the baby’s mother, this picture is a BAD very Bad close mug shot of him. This mother was doing her best and I too only new Neil for a short time and would have never guessed he’d do something like this. The baby’s mom is a wonderful and amazing mother. The way she has handled and kept so strong through this whole tradegy is just so unbelievable. Before anyone else desides to put any other judgements or comments, go to the web page Babykai.com-password Kai and see for yourself. And for those who are too lazy to go there and read everything because they don’t have time, Obviously your comments don’t mean anything and full of crap. I knew there were alot of judgemental people out there, but really if you don’t know the whole story, you really shouldn’t judge a person, and if you do, don’t put it in writting, it’s really just very rude and inconsiderate. AND really people, isn’t the point of this web site is to support and pray for the person that’s been injured, not by bashing someone that is already beating herself up because of what happened. What has this world come to, so much anger. Thats obviously how this whole this happened in the first place. No CONTROL of ones self. I know that this little boy is home with his mother that loves him dearly and has been pushing so hard and knew from the beginning that her son well recover. He is recovering, but for those who really do care about HOW this baby is doing, PRAY for his right side that is still struggling. Thats what everyone should be doing instead of such judgement!!!!!
lincoln
Aug 3, 2007 at 1:35 am
YES; TO THE DAY CARE PROVIDER……ITS true that there was bashing at the start of this………… But ; I do think that we have got that part under control …… (anyone that comes to this site needs to look & read all the comments)……………… mother is being upheld in this matter cause we know it was not her …… an baby kai is the only concern !!! I DONT THINK ANYONE REALLY KNOWS ANYONE or WHAT SOMEONE IS REALLY LIKE UNLESS THERE IS A SIGN ? STAMPED TO OUR FORHEADS Its for sure we have stupid people in this world but I dont think anyone has a site of what is to come in our lives…….. (there has been day care providers that took heat when they done nothing an were accused………… BUT the first thing people do is point fingers …….. THIS SITE IS FOR NEAL FARKAS>>>>>>> THE ABUSER THAT HE ADDMITTED TO DOING ……. AN PEOPLES OPINON AN WHAT THEY WANT TO SAY ABOUT HIM IS WHAT HE DESERVES!!!!!!………… AN AFTER READING MANY STORIES IN THE PARENTS BEHAVING BADLEY (An to many to read ?!) THIS Mother is not the only one to be bashed before u no the story? ……. Or the person involved at the time that a child was abused BUT ITS FOR SURE THE PRAYERS ARE THERE FOR KAI:) ……………….I cannot believe that people do the things they do to children an then act like it was nothing an even up hold there family members that done the abuse an it was there child that got the abuse too??………… READ some of thoes stories an see if you dont judge? (But do we know any of them NOOOOOO! ) But I understand why you are upset too:( This also is near to me! AND I FEEL NOTHING FOR NEAL !
rockdoll_71
Oct 16, 2007 at 4:39 am
It’s not the mother’s fault. How was she supposed to know that this guy was a monster? She was doing the responsible thing, going to work. I just hope to God that her little boy is ok. Does anybody know how he is doing? That’s the important thing. I would also like to know how much time this asshole got. I hope it was a long time.
lincoln
Oct 17, 2007 at 7:40 pm
Yes to rockdoll-71 :….. The Little guy just went through another surgery10/15/07 to get up dates on an about his progress go to http://www.babykai.com password kai u will find all the love an support that has been giving; along with how strong his mother has been on helping in kai’s recovery +photos:) AND he is home recoverying……………. Then As far as Neal he got 9yrs ? NOT ENOUGH FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE AN for WHAT THIS BABY HAS GONE THROUGH AN WHAT IS STILL TO come in his young life of recovery!(Neal was sentence last week!!!! and he has runied more than 1 life he has a young son too!
April RJ
Oct 17, 2007 at 7:47 pm
Not enough at all - Unless it is nine year of gut-renching torture daily. Sick pig. Tough guy to trow a child around. BLEH!!
I hope the baby will be able to live a normal life - some day.
rockdoll_71
Oct 18, 2007 at 3:50 am
Nine years…that makes me sick. It’s obvious that the judicial system doesn’t think babies lives are worth much, huh.
I am happy that the little guy seems to be doing ok. Thank God for that. As far as the asshole goes, may his turn come soon. They always say ‘what goes around comes around…’
lincoln
Oct 21, 2007 at 8:48 pm
Yes! we are all so, very thankful for KAI’S countinuing recovery going as good as it has0:) That little guy has so much will to live; an a mother with soooo much love 0:) And with all the support from there families an freinds ,along with all the strangers too. The prayers have been answered for this little guy an…. Please everyone keep them coming 0:) ANGELS FLY!
what_purpose_does_this_serve
Oct 24, 2007 at 8:37 pm
Well, I see that all of you extremely ignorant people who just HAD to point the finger over and over again haven’t left any comments for a while. I just like a negitive person to be there for all of the drama, jump into the middle of it and have their poisoness opinons validated by other horribly negitive people, to leave when all of the light and life is sucked out of the place, so severly so that you can’t even breathe anymore. Hope that all that talk made it easier for you to sleep at night. I hope you feel lighter after leaving all of your filthey waste here for others to read and bear. You just won’t be happy, rather, can’t be happy unless you are miserable and we all know that misery loves miserable company. You people are no better than Neil Farkas. Words are just as damaging as actions. The next time you feel like quote un quote stating your opinon, ask yourself 3 questions. 1-If I do this, how will the aftermath effect me? 2- If I do this, how will the aftermath effect others? 3- How does this serve me?
You negitive fools will get no further in life than the man sentenced to 9 years for inflicting this injury. Your sick attitudes seal your lonely and uneducated fate.
For you beautiful people who are truly concerned for the rehabilitation of this child, Thank you. You are light filled individuals who will prosper in life with your humanitarian ways. You are the ones aideing in the recovery of this child. You are the ones whose thoughts and feelings matter. Be happy with yourselves for making a positive, loving difference in someone else’s life.
One more thing for you self-obsorbed indivduals who must be so very unhappy and self-conscious of yourselves that you must point your crooked fingers in all directions to take the focus off your unfufilling, useless lives…..This child is bigger, better, and will make more of an impact that you ever have or will, and one day you will look at him and wish you were more like him and you will wish that you had his support system to help guide you through your days of being lost in this difficult journey of life. Good luck because you all need it more than Kai does.
jaleja
Oct 25, 2007 at 7:31 am
Hmmmmm…I didn’t comment on this thread before, I don’t think. Had to reply to what_purpose_does_this_serve. What in the world are you going on about? Long, rambling, incoherent, misspelled post that doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. YOUR post serves no purpose whatsoever. Are you another troll, or just an idiot?
April RJ
Oct 25, 2007 at 8:05 am
jaleja - I’m thinking it’s a little of both (idiot and troll). I guess we are all so bad that a bastard that throws a child against a wall angers us. Hmmmm. No love and support for the child?? I cried when I looked at the site and saw the pictures of his swollen little head. He’s not my child but I felt his pain. I want the bastard that did that to him to suffer a similar fate. I think that makes me a HUMAN BEING!!!!!!!!
Kathy
Oct 25, 2007 at 9:40 am
Geez, do we have another bleeding heart on here trying to make us feel bad for showing our anger at a POS child abuser? In one ear out the other. Its all a bunch of rambling really. Just a judging us for judging someone else. Pot. Kettle. Black.
what_purpose_does_this_serve
Oct 25, 2007 at 3:27 pm
To you last individuals that felt the need to again, speak ruthlessly while thinking you truly know what you are talking about, what was said in my last entry was meant for those of you who feel like you are all knowing and powerful and are so quick to pass blame and judgement on a mother who is most likely not unlike most other hard working people in our society. If you really have visited the boys site then you would know that this womens words are of a loving and positive nature. I never once excused this horrible man for what he has done. You failed to realize that before you went ahead and posted another rude and thoughtless comment. You can call me names all you like. My comment was for those who without knowing any more than what they read in an aritcle or saw on the news decided to publically chastise this boy’s mother. Most of you only know what happened in one moment and on one night. You know nothing else about this mother. That is what I was commenting about, but I see that I must be more specific when dealing with less alert people, such as yourselves. Go and re-read my first comment. Take your time and when you’re done, if you have a child, look at them and think “why might this person be so angry at those who insist on using their words as weapons when enough damage has been done?” If you don’t do this, which I expect you won’t, it shows who the real “idiots” and “trolls” are and which ones of us truly go running back into their dark holes when someone who is full of light surfaces and eminates their power. I will pray that you become less self-absorbed and take some time before you make your next comment.
rockdoll_71
Oct 26, 2007 at 2:24 am
Whatpurposedoesthis…, I have to agree with the last three posters above you. Why in God’s name does it seem that you are defending a monster such as this one? Another question: how in the hell does it make us “negative people” by wanting justice for this little boy that was almost killed? Are you in some way related to him? Are you a child abuser, as well? Funny, I didn’t hear you defend the baby so much. I have news for you, troll. It doesn’t make us ignorant to want children protected and the POS that hurts children in jail or punished. If I had my way, this guy and every other asshole that hurt babies WOULD BE DEAD.
I don’t blame the child’s mother. I want you to know that. The first post you made didn’t make a damn bit of sense. To imply that we are all miserable is just stupid, on your part. You are really off in many of the things that you said. “You people are no better than Neil Farkas.” What a ridiculous and stupid thing to say! I, for one, have never slammed a baby up against the wall and would never. These other mothers posting here wouldn’t either. You should think about what you say before you say it.
Another thing, I know it makes you feel better to call us ‘less alert’, implying stupidity but you should be more clear and not so ambiguous in your words. You should take your own advice and take the time to think before YOU make your next comment.
People have a right to be angry when an innocent child is hurt in this manner. Someone failed him, miserably. I am not saying it was his mother. She was at work, right? She was doing the responsible thing. As far as he goes, he should be dead. That’s the way I feel about it. I will never have sympathy for ANY MONSTER who hurts a baby.
Kathy
Oct 26, 2007 at 4:32 am
You really need to make yourself clear next time. For someone who is so “full of light” maybe you need to take some lessons and quit rambling on. Seriously. There are very few people here who blame the mother. Many of us have visited the sight and have a special place in our hearts for that little boy and the many other children in this world who have suffered the same fate. Please don’t come back here attacking posters who “don’t know what they are talking about.” We know what matters and until you are able to articulate your thoughts better, please refrain from calling us names for taking your comments as we read them. I swear, some people just come on here looking for a fight. If you do, you will find it.
lincoln
Oct 30, 2007 at 7:04 pm
All I got to say is dont judge anyone till you read, researched the facts ! And The FACT IS …… AN I think IT’S PLAN TO SEE HERE! THIS IS ….. NEAL ANDREW FARKAS’S SITE !!!! SOOOOO the Bashing needs to be directed to him!……That way he’ll have something to read …Where His sitting On his ASS FOR A LOUSEY 9yrs ; While this little guy has a life time of medical issues to go through! AND if u go to http://www.babykai.com PASSword KAI! You will see what this great little guy has already indured along with his family!….. an the love HIS MOMMY AN FAMILY.. FREINDS… DOCTORS …NURSES…ECT. And with how far Along he has come with the support of even total strangers! NEAL has turned alot of lifes in a total different direction an he will never in his life will be able to turn theres back ……. we can only hope that everyone can move on an injoy every minute close to the ones they love cause in a split second it could be all taken by assholes like NEAL! So If NEAL reads all ….He will see(if he has 1oz of remorse ) where his contolling ways have not been a smart move in his life! NEAL SIT BACK AN ENJOY YOUR PUNISHMENT ! ITS NOT ANYWHERE NEAR ENOUGH ! AN now you will see control!
libertybell_4_5_6
Nov 12, 2007 at 9:56 pm
You know, people write these hateful comments about neil all because they CLAIM to care so much about Kai. I was blessed with the opportunity to get to know both Neil and Kai and Gabrielle (Kai’s mama), and I am so saddened by the choices Neil made, but what nobody has taken the time to learn is that Neil is saddened by these choices as well. his remorse is that of someone who truly regrets what he did-a mistake that has altered not only Kai’s life, but also caused him to loose his freedom and lose the relationship with his own son as well.
If you look up his criminal history you will find Neil has no prior record. no accusations of abusing ANYONE in any way. he made a bad decision, a VERY bad decision. but if you go to babykai.com (password kai) you will see that Gaby and kai are not focused on hating Neil, but on embracing this whole situation as part of the “Plan” and growing from it. instead of sending these hateful comments and messages into the universe, why not spend that energy on sending healing thougts and prayers to Kai, and to all the children being abused by people who are preying on children-like child molesters, and people who commit pre-meditated crimes.
I am not defending neil in ANY way, I hope he thinks about what he has done and learns from it, and continues being remorseful about his one terrible decision. i just wish you all would remember though that Neil is still someone many people loved, he is someone’s child, father, brother, nephew, cousin, friend…and he is NOT a repeat offender. and your thoughts sould be focused on Kai, and other victims of Shaken Baby Syndrome.
sfdude_2008
Nov 12, 2007 at 11:29 pm
Oh no…another “f*ck you” face on Neil Farkas’ mugshot! I would never slam any babies nor toddlers against the walls, even if I were just as sadistic as Neil really was (I was just being sarcastic about “being sadistic”). That f*cker should rot in prison 4ever! I hope the poor kid was okay!
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